Stan Slaven, a longtime teacher, coach, principal, and school superintendent who served generations of students in the Glenpool area, died the morning of November 26 at about 8:15 a.m., his family said.
His son, Sterling Slaven, posted a personal tribute calling his father a mentor, confidant, and “the finest example of a Christian dad, husband, and leader.”
Sterling said his father’s last words were, “I’ll see you again soon. I love you.” Sterling added, “I love that he is no longer in pain… He was my hero.”
Countless Tributes for the Coach
Rosie Troyer, Stan’s sister, wrote that her “heart is sad” but that she takes comfort in faith: “We will meet again,” she said, adding she is thankful he is “enjoying Dad and Mom” in heaven.
Messages of condolence poured in from friends, former students, and colleagues.
Kimberly Hacker wrote, “Prayers to ease the loss for you and your family. He was one of a kind.”
Gina Miller Jacquart added, “Your dad was an amazing man and touched so many hearts.” Christa Kittle Moyer remembered him as a firm, caring school leader: “He was tough but we knew he cared about us. RIP Mr. Slaven.”
Others posted short, heartfelt notes, “Praying for your family,” “Good man gone,” and “So sorry for your loss,” echoing a common theme: gratitude for the time he spent guiding young people and countless individuals.
Several friends shared memories that show the personal side of Stan’s work.
Darla Alexander Hubbard recalled a small, funny classroom moment and said she’ll “always have those memories,” while Rick Limón wrote that “the trumpets were extra loud as he was welcomed home.”
Family members and longtime acquaintances described him as a positive influence, a leader who invested in students and colleagues, and a man of faith.
The family has not released funeral or visitation details. They have shared the personal messages above and say they will provide additional information when it becomes available.
Stan Slaven is remembered by his family, including his son Sterling and sister Rosie, friends, other family members, and a community that credits him with decades of service in education and countless personal connections.
He didn’t stick to his profession of coaching or teaching, but as a human and a kind soul to everybody he knew, according to numrous individuals.
In messages across social media, people thanked him for his guidance and offered prayers for the family as they grieve.
